Life is about loving relationships. More specifically, life is about loving
relationships that push you into expansion and help you grow. While all relationships play a role in our
understandings of life and the development of our character, some relationships
are just more special than others.
There many different types of relationships you can have in
life, but there are a few types that are completely essential to your journey
on this planet. Here are 3 types of
people you need to find in life.
1) Your Soul Mate
Your soul mate is the one who you just click with on every
level. There is never any awkwardness,
and it’s literally impossible to feel uncomfortable around them. Their may be fights and arguments, but they
are always resolved in a way that strengthens the relationship. You could spend 3 years away from that person
and reunite with them as if nothing has changed because you resonate at every
possible level.
When you meet them, you may feel a strange sense of
familiarity as if you had chosen to include them in your life prior to even
being born. This strange sense of
familiarity often times comes from the fact that you share past lives with this
person, and you both chose to come here to go on a mission together.
Contrary to what pop-culture may have you believe, your soul
mate is not necessary the opposite sex, and they are not even necessarily a
life partner. They may show up in the
form of a mother, a brother or sister, or a best friend. Every person encounters their soul mate at
some point in their life. If you haven’t found them yet, expect to in the
future.
2) Your Mirror
Your mirror is the person who tells you things as they
are. They are straight-up honest with
you, and don’t care if they hurt your feelings.
But it is because they don’t care about your feelings that enables them
to make such a transformative impact on you.
I’m not talking about a jerk here. I’m talking about a friend that will tell you
when you are backsliding, going out of integrity, or are not behaving in a way
that you should be. It’s often the case
they you will serve the same role in their life as they do in their life, and
for this reason you guys act as a mirror for one another and reflect back areas
you need to work on.
You may argue with them more often than is necessary, but
beneath your arguments lies a genuine care for one another that can’t be
shaken. Sometimes, we all need someone
to call us out when we fail to hold ourselves accountable.
3) Your Guardian
Your guardian is a mentor, a teacher, and a guide. They provide you with inspiration,
encouragement, groundedness, and feedback on your life. They help coach you through your struggles,
naivety, and growth spurts. For some people, their guardian may come in the
form of a family member, where for others it may come in the form of a teacher
or a coach.
For some, it may come in the form of someone who is not even
alive anymore, such as Buddha, Gandhi, or Jesus. The important thing is that you have someone
that you look up to who is always able to inspire you and offer you guidance on
your journey. The more deep you go on
your journey, the less personal your guardian will become.
It may start out as a family member or friend, and then
after you begin to understand your universality and connection to everything,
the moon, earth, and spirit of nature will become your guardian. Instead a teacher being the one you look to
for answers, you will go directly to the Source.
These are three archetypal persons that everyone will
benefit from having in their lives. If
you are lucky enough to have them already, fight for them and appreciate
them. If you haven’t encountered them
yet, keep working on your own development and the Universe will send them to
you when the time is right.
Thanks for reading!
Via :
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