Sure, she says she loves you, but words are cheap. Short of
seeing her reaction when you ask her for one of her kidneys, is there any way
to tell whether she’s really feeling that love? Thanks to science and a little
bit of psychology, there is!
She
loves the way you smell. Do you catch her burying her nose in your
pillow after you get out of bed? Or does she reel in disgust when you skip your
shower? If you’re sure you’ve been laying off the garlic but she’s still
turning up her nose at you, you may have trouble. Studies have shown that women
use the sense of smell in determining a life partner. She’s happy for your
successes. A woman who celebrates with you when your life goes well is truly
invested in you and your future together. Does she belittle your
accomplishments? That’s a sign of resentment. Not good.
She’s
always touching you. Does she have trouble keeping her hands off
you? Touching, especially non-sexual touching like smoothing your hair or
leaning against your shoulder, is a sign she cares deeply for you. It makes her
happy to know you’re within reach.
She
actually means it when she asks how your day went. A
person in love wants to empathize with the object of her affection. Knowing
every little detail of your day helps her strengthen her connection to you.
She
doesn’t snoop through your stuff. If her love is in doubt, she
may find herself looking through your phone or browsing history for excuses to
leave you. But a woman who gives you your privacy is willing to trust you.
Trust is one of the strongest signs of love.
She
constantly brings you up in conversations with others. You
might have to go to mutual friends to figure this one out. If she talks about
you a lot, it means she can’t stop
thinking about you. Of course, if she’s just complaining about you, that’s
another story.
She
likes to share her food with you. Love creates a chemical in our
bodies called oxytocin, and studies have shown that oxytocin increases
generosity (as well as trust; see above). That doesn’t mean your true love
won’t get annoyed when you steal all her french fries, but if she likes to
offer you bites, that is a sign her oxytocin is flowing.
She’s
there when you need her. This may seem obvious, but it’s also one
of the most important. It’s easy to be with someone when everything is fun and
the sun is shining. When life gets rough, though, a woman who really loves you
won’t be saying sayonara and riding off into the sunset. She’ll want to go
through it with you. That’s true love.
Via :
positivemed.com